Summer porch sitting

Summer vacation

I love sitting out here in the evenings.

Nuff Said.

It's delicious, isn't it?

Come on over if you'd like!

Birthday Week? Why not?

It's official. 

It is only days before I turn 40 30 Something +1. 

My momma came to visit me for the weekend.

We shopped.

She got me some adorable new school clothes.

(Thank you Mom!!!)

I bought myself some more new school clothes and shoes.

(Thank you summer school paycheck.)

We laughed.

I broke her mirror flappy thing on the passenger sun visor.

We laughed some more.

We enjoyed Sonic Happy Hour!!! (with free water for all)

We made a craft project.

We drank a bottle of wine while we crafted and laughed and talked.

We got a good night's rest...well-sort of.

We had a yummy breakfast.

We went out for more shopping.

I pushed her off my porch.

She went home.

Yes.  You read correctly.  I kind of pushed her off my porch.

(So sorry Mom!!!)

My big rumpus bumped hers while she was getting ready to step onto our front step.

She missed the step and went straight down.

And I mean it.

Yep.  She is injured.

Nope.  She wouldn't hear of staying longer to be sure it was not serious.

Yep.  I feel AWEFUL.

Nope...she won't be back until October. 

I'm pretty sure of it.

So anyhow...

Here's a picture of our beautiful wreath we made together before I pushed her down....

And...just so we're all clear about how old I will be turning....

Just after my momma hit the pavement headed home,

Pam and Gracie brought me an early birthday treat.

Gracie practiced decorating on Saturday.

I just received her first attempt at a decorated cake.

I think it's magnificent.

(almost as magnificent as the precious girl who decorated it!!!!)

Thank you Distlers, for reminding me of my upcoming age.

Thank you, Mom, for a fun weekend

...well, except the part where I broke your car

...and the part where I pushed you down.

I will never forget this birthday.

And it's not even happened yet!!!

Sigh.

Giggle.

THIS CAKE IS DELICIOUS!

Have a fantastic week my friends.

I'm sure you'll be hearing more about this adventure called 40.

Mommy/Daughter Bible Study

I am very thankful for my daughter's sweet friends and their amazing mommas!  We have been gathering one evening a week to discuss some "hot topics" for tweens and teens.  Topics have included how to avoid and overcome stress, the importance of good friends, and even purity, among other things. 

Last night, I had the privilege of leading the girls in discussion about modesty and also about Prince Charming.  While the other moms sat inside, I took the girls out to the deck and we shared some pretty terrific ideas on how to "keep it covered" and how NOT to dress.  We thought about teen idols/role models and whether or not they were modest dressers.  We discussed today's fashion and the challenges we have to dress fashionably yet modestly.  (poor Courtney...she gets a modesty review almost daily.....) 

While talking about Prince Charming, we talked about "THE perfect guy" and how each one of us has our own match...a gift given from God.  The girls made lists of the type of man they wanted to marry.  I was so proud of them.  Each listed that their Prince Charming would be a Christian.  I had to grin, though, because each had a physical feature that they were looking for.  (dark hair won for each of the young ladies.....)  Each wants her future husband to love her and to love children as well as to love God.  We discussed the importance of loving God before we look for someone to love (as in the relationship sense) because we can't truly love someone until we know the love of God. 

The best part about this group of young ladies????  They are 10, 11, and 12 years old.  These awesome people have some pretty amazing ideas of what is right and wrong.  They know what type of man will be a good husband.  They know that they will not attract the right kind of husband if they do not cover up with modest clothes.  (And they also know that turtle neck sweaters are not necessary for daily dressing!)  These girls are smart beyond their years.  I think that the next time I need help with one of my problems, I might have to go to them for assistance.  They are amazing, and to be quite honest....I think that their love for God and their desire to please Him is simply delicious!  It will be fun to watch as they grow, mature, and find their Prince Charmings, and I am thankful that God already knows who they will be. 



God, please protect these young ladies and their future spouses.  Be with them daily.  Guide them to make good choices throughout their day to day living.  Help them choose a path that will not leave scars.  Thank you for their sweet hearts and their good nature.  Thank you for their sincere thirst for you.  In the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, Amen. 

Just so you know...

She should still be this little.

(sniff, sniff)

Traditions

Family traditions are a funny thing.  Most of the time when you think of traditions, you think of holiday things....special recipes at a family dinner, opening 1 gift on Christmas Eve ... and every year it is new pajamas.... those types of traditions. 

There are a few "traditions" in our house, but not many that are set in stone.  (I should work harder at that for our kids.  Sigh....Again.  That's a topic for a different post, I'm sure.)  Every year during July I called my Daddy to tell him how many days until my birthday.  I called him every day.  True story.  Sometimes I would have to call him at work just to make sure I got the call in that day.  Every day, I told him how many days and on most days he would act surprised. 

This week has been really tough.  I have less than one week left in my "Thirty somethings," and I have been yearning to call him.  He would be telling me how old I am.  He would be laughing at the big, dark, looming 4-0. Daddy has been gone 4 1/2 years now, and one would think that this silly little tradition would be easier to take as time goes by.  It was a silly tradition, I'll admit.  But it was mine.  It was a special thing that we shared, and nobody else played along. Twice this week I have had dreams of Daddy.  Maybe they are his way of letting me know that he knows it's almost my birthday.  ...but wait.  He didn't mention it, so maybe he is acting surprised even from the other side of Heaven.  Either way, I certainly do miss that guy.  He was so patient and loving, and he always tolerated my birthday month phone calls.  Those memories are delicious. 

Have a blessed day my friends.  Enjoy every tradition.  Make the most of them.  If you have none, make some.  You won't regret it. 

...and just so you know...if there was a phone number, I'd call him in Heaven without giving a second thought!  It would be incredible to hear his ornery yet sweet, sweet voice.  Hugs!!!

Summer Household Bucket List

I know...it's summer vacation. 

A household bucket list doesn't seem as fun as a Vacation Bucket List. 

HOWEVER...I love to switch things up around here.

and let's face it...after 14 years in this house, there are lots of things that need switchin'!! 

I started with the laundry room last week. 

I spent a day emptying it and the utility closet. 

Everything got cleaned up, organized and finished. 

I scrubbed the kitchen cabinets next. 

 Whew! 

I loved the results. 

This week was Corbin's turn. 

I emptied his room and painted for him. 

Wow...what a difference! 

We put in different furniture. 

(New to him, but old stuff) 

All that is left to do is get rid of the old furniture and find a home for a few more little things.  Relief!!!

I need to buy a ceiling fan for him, but then it's done.

..well, and I might need to paint a stripe or two on his walls to add more color...maybe.

The trash man probably did not love the overflowing trash dumpster this week.  LOL

Courtney is eager for her turn. 

I'm not sure I am ready for that undertaking. 

She has more stuff than he does. 

It would be a good time to de-thing simplify, though. 

That is always a good thing.

So...I'm off to decide which project to take on next. 

(I could paint the kitchen and laundry room today.  That would be pretty easy.

Or maybe we'll just go be lazy at the pool instead. 

Either way...it's all delicious!

4th of July

I wish I had taken pictures of the process to make foods for the festivities.  I usually take desserts to gatherings.  I am better at dessert. I enjoy baking.  Cooking is fun, too...don't get me wrong.  Dessert...it's fabulous.  It's something to look forward to.  It is sweet and relaxing.  (I think I just gained 10 pounds thinking about dessert)

Anyhow...yesterday was no different really.  I baked chocolate cupcakes and put chocolate ganache on top.  (messy for an outdoor shindig!!!)  IN ADDITION to the cupcakes, though, I stuffed Poblano Peppers with a yummy filling and we grilled them.  I also whipped up a batch of "fire crackers." 

So...here's how the peppers went.  I cut the tops off the peppers and pulled out the seeds and veins.  Then I sauteed onion and garlic.  I added onion/garlic to a block of cream cheese and sprinkled paprika with it.  Next I tossed in a good handful of grated cheddar cheese.   I stirred it altogether and added a little more cheese and a little garlic powder.  Then I used a tiny baby spoon to fill the peppers with the cheese mixture.  We grilled these babies over charcoal until they were melty but still crunchy.  Oh.   My.   Goodness!!!!!  Love!

The Fire Crackers were easy!  I started with a gallon ziploc bag and cumped in 1 cup of canola oil, 1 packet of Ranch dressing mix, 3 Tbs Red Pepper Flakes and 1 box of Club Crackers.  Turn the bag to coat all the crackers.  Allow them to sit and absorb the oil and yumminess.  That's it!  Store them in an air tight container...or in our case...just put them in a bowl and they'll be gone in no time. 

Here are a few pictures from our delicious day!

Me with our awesome kids

Paper medallion that I made....forgot that the trees had been trimmed and there were no low branches from which to hang them!  Grrrr...  OH well.  We ended up hanging them from Tiki Torches. 

My amazing Captain America with his grandmothers

We were so happy that they both joined the celebration!

That's part of the crowd.

My kids with cousins.

This was a tough picture to get. 

Pyromaniacs.  That's all I can say.

Much more beautiful in person.  Promise!

That's it. 

Another 4th of July has come and gone. 

School supplies are out at Wal-Mart. 

Sigh. 

 The downward spiral to the new schoolyear has begun.

Hoping to make every day count. 

I have a lot of projects to do. 

 But that list is worthy of its own post. 

Take time to enjoy the deliciousness my friends! 

Love and Hugs.

We have a winner!

Today was our "AAU" National Qualifier for the Jr. Olympics in Houston. 

Corbin was a pole vaulter today in the meet. 

 He jumped his personal best and qualified to go to the meet in Houston. 

It was a terrific day! 

Congratulations to Corbin and to the other 19 kids who have qualified to compete in 32 events in Houston. 

WHAT an accomplishment!

And...since it was our anniversary, we drove out to Anderson's Ice Cream for a cold treat before we went back home!  Yippee!!!  It was just as delicious as I remember!  So glad they are "Back."

'Nuff said.  ;)

The Lemon Ice Cream was DELICIOUS! 

Maybe any flavor would have been delicious because it was so hot at the meet.

Either way....I'll be back for more another day. 

This is the life. 

Seriously. 

 Livin' the dream here people. 

It does not get any better than this. 

(Well...maybe if someone had done the laundry while I was out all day......)

Life IS delicious. 

I hope you're enjoying it as much as I am. 

Enjoy the summer fun!